Ugo Daniels make u no vex oooh jare.... I have just been busy doing a few things here and there.. u know how we do...
So my people My heart is still in my backside ohhhh ... I still ha vent broken the news to my mum yet.. it seems as if she knows what is about to happen ....she normally works for about 3 weeks and comes home for a week but this time she has been gone for more than 6 weeks.
But no stress cause I have been using the time to do a bit of underground work to cover my backside -- if u know what i mean. I have been speaking a few relatives on my mums side like my mums older brother and my cousins just to keep them on stand by as i might be needing them to help me reason with my mum once i 'drop the bomb'.
And so far i things are looking good and i must say i feel a bit positive about the whole thing now.
I definitely know that my mum will kick a big fuss once i break the news to her but at least all there will be no one to side with her as I have managed to get my Uncles, Aunts and cousins on board (they've all known the situation from the beginning and feel that my momsi is overdoing things)
I know that if worst comes to worst, my Uncles on my fathers side /fathers family are the ones who will give me away but i still feel that my mums blessing is key and will make my man and i even happier.
Oh gah ju........all this wahalal just because I WANT MARRY MY SWEETHEART OOH.
Oh and at least i wont be breaking the news to her on my own as my uncle and oldest cousin have offered to sit with me when i decide to fill my mum in, at least there will be someone to hide behind in case she decided to land me one....lol (just joking)
So my people that's its for now ooh the waiting continues...... Thanks for all the support and advise.. i really appreciate it.
So ....My birthday was just another ordinary day ... nothing special.. i kept things on the D_low. I had decided to go into work the week before but i decided not to at the last minute cause i didn't want those silly ass people at work to start thinking that i don't have a life (not that there is anything wrong with working on your birthday ooh i beg)
i had been feeling very low a few weeks before my birthday which was a bit strange .. not that i get hyper about my birthdays at all just that i had never felt this depressed about my birthday before. I think it also had to do with the fact that i was still worried about this whole braking the news to my mum shenanigan.
Everyone kept asking me what i was doing for my birthday cause my man and i are well known for throwing the best Barbecue parties and everyone had been waiting for their invitation to my B'day BBQ. Lets just say they were all disappointed when i told them that I was taking this easy this year.
My man and i have a tradition giving presents at midnight (the first few mins of the new day) so i intentionally had my nightly shower a little earlier than usual and got into bed. and that was when my emotions got the best of me.
I said my prayers tearfully ....Thanking God for my life and all the wonderful things he had done for me in my _ years on earth....blah blah blah. I calmed down after my prayers and started to reflect on the past years and what i have managed to achieve so far (trust me it has not been easy at all)..I tried to console myself that someone somewhere is probably going thorough worse and that i have to be Thankful for what i have.
At this point my man walked into the room and i quickly wiped my tears and pretended that i was asleep .... hoping that i would stop him from waking me up and doing the whole Happy Birthday and presentation ritual....But it didn't ooh.
He woke me up and started singing His remixed version of Happy Birthday (traditional/50 cent style) which i thought was sweet (but my emotions were still all over the place).he then settled down gave me my presents and speech about life, birthdays and his love for me, you should have seen my face : (
I didn't know whether to laugh or cry and so I just let it all out and burst out in tears like a baby yyyyyyyyyyyiiiiiiiiieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...lol
And as always my understanding sweetheart comforted me and advised me to use the day not only as a day of reflection and counting my mistakes but as a day to be grateful to God for the number of years that he has granted me so far and the wonderful things that he continues to do in my life and so on and so forth....
In the end I decided to set myself new goals that i hope to achieve by my next 21st birthday..lol.
And to appreciate the little things in life that we tend to ignore just because we are sooo focused on the big picture/ dream which does not come easy....
THIS LIFE THAT WE LIVE IS A MYSTERY TO BE LIVED AND NOT A PROBLEM TO BE SOLVED !!
And by the way i am not a cry baby ooh .....all u cheeky people out there.. I know what u r capable of branding me as..
Thanks for all the birthady wishes -NuFf lOvE x x x
So my people My heart is still in my backside ohhhh ... I still ha vent broken the news to my mum yet.. it seems as if she knows what is about to happen ....she normally works for about 3 weeks and comes home for a week but this time she has been gone for more than 6 weeks.
But no stress cause I have been using the time to do a bit of underground work to cover my backside -- if u know what i mean. I have been speaking a few relatives on my mums side like my mums older brother and my cousins just to keep them on stand by as i might be needing them to help me reason with my mum once i 'drop the bomb'.
And so far i things are looking good and i must say i feel a bit positive about the whole thing now.
I definitely know that my mum will kick a big fuss once i break the news to her but at least all there will be no one to side with her as I have managed to get my Uncles, Aunts and cousins on board (they've all known the situation from the beginning and feel that my momsi is overdoing things)
I know that if worst comes to worst, my Uncles on my fathers side /fathers family are the ones who will give me away but i still feel that my mums blessing is key and will make my man and i even happier.
Oh gah ju........all this wahalal just because I WANT MARRY MY SWEETHEART OOH.
Oh and at least i wont be breaking the news to her on my own as my uncle and oldest cousin have offered to sit with me when i decide to fill my mum in, at least there will be someone to hide behind in case she decided to land me one....lol (just joking)
So my people that's its for now ooh the waiting continues...... Thanks for all the support and advise.. i really appreciate it.
So ....My birthday was just another ordinary day ... nothing special.. i kept things on the D_low. I had decided to go into work the week before but i decided not to at the last minute cause i didn't want those silly ass people at work to start thinking that i don't have a life (not that there is anything wrong with working on your birthday ooh i beg)
i had been feeling very low a few weeks before my birthday which was a bit strange .. not that i get hyper about my birthdays at all just that i had never felt this depressed about my birthday before. I think it also had to do with the fact that i was still worried about this whole braking the news to my mum shenanigan.
Everyone kept asking me what i was doing for my birthday cause my man and i are well known for throwing the best Barbecue parties and everyone had been waiting for their invitation to my B'day BBQ. Lets just say they were all disappointed when i told them that I was taking this easy this year.
My man and i have a tradition giving presents at midnight (the first few mins of the new day) so i intentionally had my nightly shower a little earlier than usual and got into bed. and that was when my emotions got the best of me.
I said my prayers tearfully ....Thanking God for my life and all the wonderful things he had done for me in my _ years on earth....blah blah blah. I calmed down after my prayers and started to reflect on the past years and what i have managed to achieve so far (trust me it has not been easy at all)..I tried to console myself that someone somewhere is probably going thorough worse and that i have to be Thankful for what i have.
At this point my man walked into the room and i quickly wiped my tears and pretended that i was asleep .... hoping that i would stop him from waking me up and doing the whole Happy Birthday and presentation ritual....But it didn't ooh.
He woke me up and started singing His remixed version of Happy Birthday (traditional/50 cent style) which i thought was sweet (but my emotions were still all over the place).he then settled down gave me my presents and speech about life, birthdays and his love for me, you should have seen my face : (
I didn't know whether to laugh or cry and so I just let it all out and burst out in tears like a baby yyyyyyyyyyyiiiiiiiiieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...lol
And as always my understanding sweetheart comforted me and advised me to use the day not only as a day of reflection and counting my mistakes but as a day to be grateful to God for the number of years that he has granted me so far and the wonderful things that he continues to do in my life and so on and so forth....
In the end I decided to set myself new goals that i hope to achieve by my next 21st birthday..lol.
And to appreciate the little things in life that we tend to ignore just because we are sooo focused on the big picture/ dream which does not come easy....
THIS LIFE THAT WE LIVE IS A MYSTERY TO BE LIVED AND NOT A PROBLEM TO BE SOLVED !!
And by the way i am not a cry baby ooh .....all u cheeky people out there.. I know what u r capable of branding me as..
Thanks for all the birthady wishes -NuFf lOvE x x x
12 comments:
*ugo reads post, smiles and goes back to sleep to comment proper in the morning*
I always tell people, you have to be strong in cases like this. Better you deal with it on time than continue procastinating. In the end, you'll be happier for it.
I just wish parents will see that gone are those dayz when ethnic, religion, racial, etc matters.
Goodluck, in advance as you take a bold step of faith. All da best.
One!!
Aww...don't worry babes. I'm a cry baby too, although I try to act up like u sometimes. I know deep down I'm so sensitive. lol.
You're right about needing your mum's blessing.
Go ahead & tell her, I'm sure she'll have no choice but to support you. You're her baby.
All the best!!
cry babyyyyyyyy!!!!
lol. it will all be fine. don't worry, she'll come around. good thinking to rally support first.
Aw, poor thing. I hope all goes well with your mother. Emotional eh? Are you preggers? LOL, just joking. Tears are merely just a release, nothing wrong with crying every now and again.
*hug*
Hey girl...thanks for stopping by my space!! Awww, good luck with your mum...Hold on to God and every thing will fall in place...Good luck and have a nice weekend! {HUGS!}
So, are you waiting for me to bring in da popo again? How was ur weekend? *smiles*
awwwww! touching!
first off,
How many times are you going to turn 21 madam, lol
eya, dats so sweet, I might remix that bit of the midnight gift giving.
I was a bit depressed as well with the b-day thingbut you get over it. Everything with mumsy will be fine
@ Ugo:Very cheeky.
Thanks for the advice U R MY new Mr Motivator thts if u dont mind oh.. x x x
@Aijay: Thanks for the support x x x
@Teediva: Its good to know that Iam not the only cry babby in town, YYYYYYIIIIIIEEEE..lol
@Queen of my castle: I see Ugo's cheekyness is begining to rub off on u..I AM NOT PREGNANT OOH, so dont even go there sha.lol x x
@Nyemoni: U r welcome hon...nuff love x x
@Labelle: Thanks for stopping by x x
@I will continue to be 21 for as long as i want oooh (Dont mind me Im just in denial.. u know what its like..)
Oh and hollar @ a sister the next time u start to feel depressed so that we can compare notes ...lol x x
lol will do
Awwh ur sweetheart is such a darling!
Whats the big news you are afraid to break to mama??
Maybe i need to read the older posts to know.
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